Tuesday, February 26, 2008

I'm glad you're my FRIEND!


Live today to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised.
"What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others." ~Pericles


Monday, February 25, 2008

for the lovers/engaged/couples

Emotions are a tricky area in relationships. What you might consider harmless could cause a serious upset with your partner. It's best to get an idea of how each person reacts to situations early on in the relationship. When you are both answering these questions, take care to answer honestly and listen honestly. The point is to develop a better understanding of how each other's mind works. And if really getting worst tell your partner let's discuss that later make love of me first LOL

Saturday, February 23, 2008

You don't like her/his friends???!!!

Well, you can always work through little quirks here and there, but if her/his friends' behavior bugs you now, it will really REALLY bite you later. Your environment, your style, and the people who surround you may not define you (her or him) completely. On one hand, we shouldn't judge a book by it's cover, but on the other, these are reflections and insights to who you are. If you don't mind having others subconsciously associating you with that behavior and they will....then, stay. Otherwise, leave it as friends and walk off into a different sunset. There really are high quality women or men out there. It took me a while to realize it, but you don't have settle.

Sunday, February 17, 2008

damaged had been done

myflower replied to us -----

Dear Valued Customer:I am sorry for the delay. The flowers were processed in time and sent for delivery on the 14th. The delay must have happened because flights were delayed, or transport from the courier's hub to Ozamis was delayed too. Thus, when the flowers got to your recipient, it was already wilted. I regret any inconvenience, disappointment or damage these has caused you. The volume of orders for Valentine's day was just too much, and we were flooded with inquiries, emails and questions. I know it is not an excuse for our delay in answering your emails or inquiries. But please understand that our manpower was not enough to give each customer due attention. For these, I am sorry for the lapse in service. Allow us to make it up to you by sending her a new bouquet of flowers, as a sign of our deep regret and sincerity. We hope for your kind understanding. Sincerely,paulaFlower Depot ( their reply to my husband )

Dear Valued Customer:We are very sorry that the flowers arrived in bad condition. Due to the volume of orders this Valentine's Day, we were not able to give you top quality service. We apologize for the lapse in service. We will be sending you a complimentary bouquet of flowers, as a sign of our deep regret and sincerity.Hoping for your kind understanding,PaulaFlower Depot ( reply to my mail )

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Bad Experienced

Just a story about myflowerdepot ~~ my partner wanted to surprised me with flowers on valentine's day but it was him who got surprised and felt frustrated and mad of what he had seen with the flowers i got.

He ordered 2 dozens of red roses with hugging teddy bears before cut-off dates. He was tracking where is the item it always said : on processing.

Several times he sent them an e-mails and he even try to send them offline messages for the site they have there but the yahoo messenger they have were invisible each time he visited there. So my partner contacted them using his phone but the number they have their just keep on ringing and no one answering his call in many attempts he tried.

Now, if u have to look at their site u can see all are the positive comments well, it is fine...., i know that is for the better service so they will get more profit in their business. What i am trying to say here is : we trusted their site knowing that they will satisfy us of what kind of service they can offer cause we are paying for it so if they cannot met their service due to some circumstances they better inform the person who ordered flowers from them with their reasons whats going on.

I had pictures of the flowers forwarded to my partner incase he is going to use that as a proof. I am using that flowers too to my friends online and they knew how bad it was.

Friday, February 15, 2008

Caught Someone Is Cheating.........

Every guy I know (friends, family and past lovers) believes in denying it until the grave, unless you actually catch them red-handed. Some will, even then, attempt to deny it. I asked a guy friend why men deny it even when there's proof. His answer? Because they don't want to live with the thought that you have the "power" of a confession hanging over their heads. He said it puts the man in a diminished position and he'd rather deal with the consequences of lieing than give his mate the ability to remind him of his indiscretion. Sounds quirky right? I think so too but that's your answer straight from the horse's mouth!

But for me caught in the act and say nothing when someone is cheating and show your face how disappointed you are. PEACE!!!

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Kiss Me!!!

Just wanted to greet you guys happy valentine's!!! may your heart full of love..... in return, i want to know where u going to kiss your special someone LOL

lemme start:

of course no1 else ---- to the man made my life complete a SMACK for you!!! the rest of it when i am in our home. Love you bunches.

Saturday, February 9, 2008

Valentine's Day

Why do we celebrate VALENTINE'S DAY!!!??? We celebrate Valentine's Day, because until 1969, it was one of the many Saint's Days observed by the Catholic Church. It was dedicated to the patron saint of romantic causes, St. Valentine.

Roman paganism have allowed it to continue as a holiday for everyone.

The root of the holiday is showing how martyr is someone in the name of LOVE. It is not bad to love unless it won't ruin individuals life. Some people says LOVE is Happiness. But for me its a matter of many sacrifices to make it work.

Love for the family, friends, and to our partner will be a 100%. But when someone abuses what we have shown to them, be on guard for ourself not being used by anyone. Yes, LOVE is a matter of many sacrifices but we must know the boundaries . When it is time to lead our heart's back home do it.

Experiences made us a better person......,so people don't afraid to show how much u LOVE someone but never expect how much they love u back for love is given freely in no conditions like what God shown his LOVE to all of us. Happy Valentine's To All of Us!!!

to my partner --- you u are being loved
to my family ---- loved is always there
to my friends ---- thanks for the love

God Bless Us All...... until, next post. Happy heart's Day mwaaaaahhhh!!!

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Check your attitudes :

1. Aggressiveness - demeanor toward people.
- - - - friendly,courteous,thoughtful ( sociable )
- - - - aggressive, impolite, tactless ( dangerous )

2. Control Attitudes - mechanisms by which we influence others.
- - - - persuasive, conciliatory, submissive, gentle, yielding
- - - - domineering, punitive, forceful, stubborn

3. Dependability - factors that affect trust in others.
- - - - dependable, trusting, honest, truthful
- - - - unreliable, suspicious, dishonest, liar

4. Egocentrism - our degree of selfishness.
- - - - generous, humble, forgiving, modest
- - - - greedy, arrogant, resentful, proud

5. Emotional expression - our ways of expressing feelings.
- - - - congenial, funny, extroverted, talkative
- - - - inhibited, serious, shy, introverted

6. Fairness - how we judge others.
- - - - appreciative, impartial, tolerant
- - - - ungrateful, biased, intolerant

7. Leadership - how we interact in a group.
- - - - brave, leader, independent
- - - - fearful, follower, dependent

8. Physical appearance - how we view ourselves physically.
- - - - attractive, stylish, tidy
- - - - ugly, disheveled, untidy

9. Regard for Rules - obedience for the laws of society
- - - - ethical, honest, law-abiding
- - - - unethical, dishonest, criminal

10.Team Spirit - how we fit in society.
- - - - social, family-oriented, patriotic
- - - - antisocial, loner, anarchist

Sunday, February 3, 2008

TAKE TIME



Take time to think;
it is the source of power.

Take time to read;
it is the foundation of wisdom.

Take time to play;
it is the secret to staying young.

Take time to be quite;
it is the opportunity to seek God.

Take time to be aware;
it is the opportunity to help others.

Take time to love and be loved;
it is God's greatest gift.

Take time to laugh;
it is the music of the soul.

Take time to be friendly;
it is the road of happiness.

Take time to dream;
it is what the future is made of.

Take time to pray;
it is the greatest power on earth.



-Author Unknown-